Addie, have you ever heard of a woman named Anne Grady? She runs the Anne Grady Group in Austin, Texas, which studies resilience. She also has a son who was born with ODD. The family spent some time at a residential psych treatment center in Dallas, which helped her son, Evan, a lot. Maybe she can give you some useful advice for your daughter or point you to resources if there are any you haven't already found.

www.annegradygroup.com

Wishing you and your daughter the best!